Identity is who you are and where you get your value

What is the same about you in every role you play in your life?

Identity structures based on desires and feelings are fragile because desires and feelings change all the time

We also often have conflicting desires which can be confusing if we base our identity on our desires

We don’t only look within to find our identity. We look within and then see if it is culturally acceptable. We look inwards and then outward

There is no room for disagrement because people’s identities are tied to their beliefs so if you disagree with them you are invalidating their existence

You will only have self esteem if you have esteem from someone you esteem